Girls nowadays think in perspective for their future and from the saying that love is transitional. What in fact remains after it, good feelings, habit, being quite because of good matters?
Marriage because of the money is often selected choice nowadays as it is not obligatory the chosen one to be a grandpa with lots of money in the bank. The opportunity for the lack of love does not exclude the sympathy, good attitude or the feelings of friendship. The understanding between two people could lead to love, not crazy and burning but satisfying enough and allowing good way of life. Love could be established with time and the lack of passion and sexual satisfaction to occur.
In the Middle East countries the man negotiates his wife with her parents. She does not have the opportunity to start or stop loving. Does this mean she is unhappy?!?! Hardly, because she lives with the inner belief that this is the right choice she loves her husband with his positive and negate e qualities. He is what he is…he should take care of her.This is what religion and moral dictate. This is why I think at the end the inner attitude and beliefs are the most important factor for personal happiness and perception of life.
Everybody has a choice in life and when faith doesn’t do anything for us we should undertake something to help faith as we find best.
